A couple of weeks ago I was once again reflecting on the widespread use of the term, chronic illness, two words used to describe a wide range of illnesses, everything from diabetes to cancer to migraine headaches to rheumatoid arthritis. Those 2 words evoke, in me, a feeling of finality and futility, a prognosis I admittedly resist.
I posted the following query on Facebook, which launched an interesting discussion. It appears I’m not alone in my desire to be cautious about the language we use – and that I may be a little too sensitive. Here’s how it went.
Me: I have been grappling with my general dislike of the term “chronic illness” for some time. Yesterday a new term came to mind, “chronic sensitivity.” It occurs as a more accurate description of the long-term journey, with an eye on health and healing instead of illness. What do you think?
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Ilona Rudolfs: For me as a European, not native-English-speaker, I would not have any idea of what you could mean, when you use these words. For me as someone who enjoys the privilege of the journey you mentioned, I know exactly what you mean and agree. -> in my opinion, the best words depend on who you are talking to. (I am curious what others will answer to your question!)
C.J. Hayden: Joan, I can relate to the desire to not think of a person as ill, however, I think it’s also important to be clear about what is meant. What would you think of “chronic health condition,” or just “chronic condition” when the health context is clear.
Joan Friedlander: From my current vantage point, although the doctors say I have a chronic illness, I experience it as a chronic sensitivity, meaning that there are no symptoms but I am aware that some susceptibility remains. In the past, it was more accurate to say “chronic illness” or “chronic condition.”
Upon reflection, I think we have a spectrum here. It depends on where one is in the experience of being ill, from acute to chronic, and within chronic, just how chronic.
C.J. Hayden Ah, then you are talking about another possibility, I think. So in the spectrum, one could be acutely ill, chronically ill, have a chronic condition, or have a chronic sensitivity. To me, sensitivity would imply something like an allergy — a condition which causes you no problems as long as you take care of it. But if it could flare up again no matter what you did, to me that would be a chronic condition.
Joan Friedlander Yes, that sounds right. Nicely articulated C.J.! In the end, my aim is to reach people in the chronic ranges to assist them in understanding what is mutable and what is, at the moment, their reality so that they can recover more easily.
Cindy Reinhardt We so need new, empowering language and this thread is a beautiful way (from awesome folks!) to move in that direction!
Michael Stratford: the challenge with the word chronic is that in popular culture it has taken on an ‘in perpetuity’ context, meaning chronic has now come to almost mean…it’s never going away. The etymology of it is actually “lasting a long time” and in the 17th century somehow a “vague disapproving sense coming from it’s relationship with addiction” came to be.
So really, chronic, while simply originally being descriptive of a length of time has come to mean something ‘bad’ unfortunately. But in any case, chronic does not mean “is never going away”….
Joan Friedlander: Michael, yes, “never going away” is what I hear when the word chronic is used today. Thanks for the etymology perspective.”Lasting a long time” describes my experience and offers the *potential* for healing – how long & to what degree is highly individual.
Ferrier Stillman What about long term or lasting sensitivity? The problem w/ chronic is that it’s taken on such a negative connotation
KB: Sounds like somebody who is emotionally hyper sensitive….that’s what came up for me.
Joan Friedlander: K., interesting observation …. Personally speaking, physical sensitivity – or not – has an energetic/emotional component. Personal meaning was physical sensitivity, yet the continued road to health is successful management of my energy, physical and emotional.
This discussion and all your comments have given me good food for thought. (Digestion metaphor!) Per the collection of comments here, awareness about the words we use to describe circumstances can lock us in or open us up (my best words for now).
What are your thoughts about the terms we use?
- Specifically, how do you feel about the term “chronic illness.” Is it the best description?
- How does it make you feel?
- What did you think about these various comments and suggestions quoted in this post?